I think Krystal's comment is head on... whether or not we like Eben or think he's a terrible person is irrelevant. If we let these feelings take over, we are going to miss the point.

Eben says things that are vulgar and abrasive and sometimes I feel like I'm going to vomit in class. But why is this a bad thing if no one is forcing me to sit through class? I even have the option of going to class and completely tuning out while surfing the internet if I'm concerned about attendance. I chose this elective after reading comments on lawnet that do not, in any way, misrepresent the nature of this class. Not only did most of us know what we were getting ourselves into, but no one (not even Eben) cares whether or not we attend. This fact alone is enough to prove to me that Eben isn't doing this for anyone except us, and also, that most of us WANT to hear what Eben has to say. I really believe that he cares about us in a way that most of our professors do not. If we forget this, we may miss out on something that could help us find the right careers for ourselves and be happier people.

Consider the task that Eben is trying to undertake. He has even said to us that it is unlikely that he'll achieve this task because the odds are so stacked against him. He gets 1 hour and 20 minutes with us twice a week. This is NOTHING compared to the pressure we are under 24/7 and messages that we are bombarded with the rest of the time. We've got: our 3 other classes, the time we spend with the casebooks, the e-mails that we get flooded with, the briefs, the interviews, the lunches/firm things/events...the list goes on. Every time we take money out of the bank we're reminded of this stuff. When we socialize, our classmates are talking about this stuff. When we're trying to get DRUNK our classmates are talking about this stuff. I have often found myself completely overwhelmed by the feeling that there is no escape from this stuff. And Eben is coming into the picture with information that goes against the messages we constantly receive from the world that we are immersed in. Not only is it going to make us uncomfortable, but it is going to be nearly impossible for Eben to have a voice that is as strong and as loud as all the stuff that he is trying to get us to take a more critical look at.

If Eben came into class on Day 1 with a gentle smile and said, "Hello students! Today we're going to listen to some nice music, and then I'll explain to you why working at a law firm may not be excatly what it seems," then his voice would DROWN. Even being as loud as he is now, I still find that many of the ideas that seem so true and honest in class fade when I get home at the end of the day and realize that I'm stressed about X Y and Z. I think Eben HAS to do what he's doing if he wants to have even a small chance of getting through to us. I think all he wants us to do is to be honest with ourselves and true to ourselves. Unfortunately, we're living in a world where those values are at the bottom of the ladder, and we're being pushed to adhere to this value system, because it sustains a large part of the legal profession. Eben is waving the red flag for us. I don't think he cares if we decide not to listen...he's just doing what he can to make those of us who want to hear from him understand the things about the legal profession that no one else will tell us. And he has experience and perspective that none of us have this early in our careers, no matter how smart or able we are. So like Krystal said, be selfish....especially when you're seeking approval. It shouldn't come from the wrong people, and Eben is one of those "wrong people" from whom we might wish to seek approval (which would explain why we get upset by the scary red letters). We are the only ones who need to be happy with our choices....Eben wants to help us figure this out...we should take advantage of this.

-- JessicaGuzik - 09 Apr 2010