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| | -- By JeffreySchatz - 15 Apr 2010
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< | I: What does it mean for you to be a racist? |
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| | I: In what way? |
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| | I: But do you really think that every white person is smarter and nicer than every black person? |
| | WS: Of course I still have a problem with them! They’re black. |
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< | I: But they’re just as good as whites in all the ways you mentioned: intelligence, creativity-- |
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> | I: But they’re just as good as whites in all the ways you mentioned: intelligence, kindness-- |
| | WS: But that doesn’t matter. |
| | WS: Just better. Like God is better than the devil or good is better than evil. They’re just better. |
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| | Child (C): But why not? |
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The above conversations are not exactly the same, but they do share a key feature. Both situations involve an individual who places different values on people based on whether or not they are members of the individual’s group. The white supremacist tries to give other reasons for the difference in values he places on whites and blacks, but in the end has to admit it is simply about race. The parent readily admits that she values her child more than the neighbor for the simple reason that the child is a family member. Both the parent and the white supremacist have constructed what I will call a value group, a group whose members the individual values more highly than those outside the group. |
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> | Racism has served as a motivation for violence, genocide and war. This is not true for familyism. Family feuds are largely a thing of the past, and aside from the rare "hockey Dad" brawl, familyism generally manifests itself in a non-violent way. Additionally, familyism arguably has some benefits. It could be difficult for children to survive to adulthood if their parents didn’t give them any special treatment. More importantly, the love of, and interaction with, family members is a source of great joy for many people. It would be difficult to argue that racism either saves lives or provides people with a significant source of happiness. |
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However, as a society, we do not abhor racism solely because of its negative consequences. Rather, we view any value judgments based on race to be wrong. When Dr. King hoped that his children would “not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character,” he was asserting that an American principle of equality meant that people should not be valued based on the groups they are in, but as individuals. Familyism violates this ideal just as much as racism does.
I never thought this preference was questionable. Family = blood relation. Thus the preference for family members makes sense because it is basic human biology. There are biological and evolutionary advantages to choosing your family members over others. And I’m not talking about nepotism in business or politics, just instances of regular everyday life like you mentioned. I didn’t hear a good reason why family members shouldn’t show more care and spend more money on people who are blood relations than those people who are not. Parents usually if not always have more invested in their own children than in other children who are not familial relations. (Adopted children also count as familial relations in this case.) |
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< | You also spoke about equality and wealth distribution. I think you’re saying that there should be no familyism in order to make people more equal to one another. For example, if a wealthy man dies, his wealth should be distributed into the commons to help the common good instead of going to his biological children. But what incentive does the wealthy man have to keep his fortune for future generations of his family if he has not control over where it ends up after his death? In addition wealth distribution can and also does occur outside of the family unit. |
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